holiday weekend

I took an extra day off work this weekend to make it a four dayer. Well worth it. Spent way too much money though. Two trips to football games that were an hour away (gas money). One trip to races, 60 miles away (more gas money), ($70.00 in ticket money), ($25.00 in food). It was all to watch my son and his activities. Of course we took the girlfriend everywhere we went because her mom is out of town for the weekend. I enjoy taking her with us though. My son is so different than my daughter was. When she had boyfriend she never brought them around, and she never included us in her life with them. My son is the complete opposite. I dropped him and the girlfriend off at the mall last week to shop for school clothes and about an hour before I was suppose to pick them up he called me and ask if I wanted to come early and eat with them. Today they were here at the house and decided to go swimming. About five minutes after they went out he opened the door and wanted me to come swim with them. They begged me to. It feels really good to know that even though he is growing up he is not growing away from me.

The BF update.......Up until Friday I had avoided him all together for a week. Friday was my B day (38). I spent the day with my son, went to high school football game and came home to go to bed. Just like me to prefer to be alone on my birthday. About 11:30 the phone rings and its some girls from work. They were all out and decided I needed to be out too since it was my birthday. Normally I would turn down an invitation to the bar but I told myself I needed to do something. So I went. Well I my friends from work weren't the only ones there. My daughter and her friend, whose birthday it happened to be also, and her mother were there too. Next thing I knew they were all buying me shots. I never ordered a thing to drink and never ask for anything. Still somehow I ended up drunk. (I'm not a big drinker at all) So they got me drunk and then they all either left me there or were too drunk themselves to get me home. So I called the BF. UGH!! So now he suddenly thinks everything is just fine. WTF????? I should have just stayed home. LOL